It's been a long time.....

So I know I’ve neglected Blog world for quite sometime. My apologies, It seems like a lot of things have transpired in my absence… things that I would most likely have commented on. I’ll not regress, I can just sum it up very quickly. My thoughts about the Chris Brown Rihanna situation side closer with Malika The Milf, The Octomom should be put in an insane asylum and thank goodness..do you know what I can do with 13 extra dollars a paycheck?

Anyway let me explain my absence… My co-worker got called for Jury duty so I didn’t have too much down time. Of course she was called for the case and stayed out for a week and a half.

February 2, Mr. Magnificent was indicted. Against my better judgement I went down to Baltimore that weekend to visit him and dragged Kingston along with me. I’ll say this: I’ve known him since I was 16 years old, he has been a very huge part of my life since then. It was only recently (as in the last few years of that relationship) that I realized we couldn’t be together. Love wasn’t the issue. Yes I’m sure Ike loved Tina, Chris loved Rihanna, Eric loved Halle but we just couldn’t make it work in a healthy manner so we needed to part ways. The point is I still love that man very much, just knew it couldn’t and wouldn’t work out so seeing him back there in his prison issue vans and long jumpsuit just broke my heart. I would say into a million little pieces but it’s not that serious. It hurt even more to see the way he was looking at Kingston, you could tell he was truly hurt and I’m certain if he didn’t realize before how stupid his actions were it hit him then. From that point I was completely distracted by my thoughts of his situation, with my son and with work. As it stands he’ll be sitting where he is for quite some time, his family may or may not be able to come up with the money for his lawyer which only makes matters that much worse because without a decent attorney he’ll end up getting the max which hurts me because of my son. I can’t imagine my son growing up without his father (even though he hadn’t really been around too much, he was still “there”). I’ll not be taking King to the correctional facility anymore as I don’t think that’s an appropriate place for a child so if he is given a long sentence, King will be speaking to his father courtesy of the U.S postal service. I’ve decided to help out with some of the legal fees, not the majority but just something so that he can have half a chance at coming out before Kingston hits puberty. The stubborn bitch in me wants to tell him to ask all those random chicks to put their money where their coochie is and help him out, but… Ok ok Ok I did tell him that, just in not so many colorful words, but I’m still going to help out. I just hope he learns his lesson. The only easy money is hitting the lottery and that really isn’t that easy to do.

So anyway, I’m back. I’ll be going around to see what I’ve missed in the last couple of weeks.