After going through the screening process for my son to get into this school which boasts state of the art computer equipment, music lessons on everything from the xylophones to violas and ballroom dance classes plus an extraordinary academic curriculum all for the low price of 375 per month I was left to ask what's the catch....
In the rule book, on appearances it states, Boy can not wear braids, twists, dreadlocks....or anything other hairstyle we deem inappropriate. I think the principal read that line at the same time I did because as soon as I looked her up, her next question was: will that be a problem?
Deep sigh, so i must choose between cutting his hair and his academic future. Why is this even an issue?
My decision would be to just throw a ponytail in his hair. I really don't feel like cutting his hair, not just yet, i've made an appointment before and punked out and I certainly don't like the idea of SOMEONE else telling me what to do with my child's hair.
This should be simpler as it is my son's future at stake (yeah it's that drastic, he's already got a few strikes against him) but it isn't.
I'd like to inquire about the legality of such regulations. I mean they're already forcing catholicism on all attendees, and while i'm not all the okay with that i can bear with it but the hair thing is really bothering me.
The saddest part is, there is NO equivalent program in NY for him to attend in lieu of this excellent opportunity. Well not within my price range.
It's times like this that really frustrate me about his father not helping. It's not hurting me, it hurts his child. I wish more parents would see that.
Anyway just venting. Seems like everywhere I go there's a hair issue. Maybe my son and I will both rock an Amber Rose.
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6 days ago
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Is the school a private school?
That's jacked up! They are already forcing religion on them, lessening their creativity through the uniforms I'm sure they have to wear but NOW you have to make your son have an even steven haircut just so he can get an education?
Sad...really sad. When did people become afraid of hair?
So his hair will hinder his academics? Whatever.
So they think the hair gonna cover his inability to think? Some people. SMH
Honestly, I am not a fan of little boys and long hair. But, I do agree that no one should force you to make that kind of decision. In the end he is YOUR son and you should be able to do what you want. Man this sucks!!
I wish I knew why dreadlocks, braids, or twists are considered inappropriate. They might as well say, any hairstyle that is derived from African or African American culture, is not allowed.
Honestly, I find that Europeans aren't as understanding about things regarding hair as other cultures are. Africans have always regarded our hair as sacred and we culturally enjoy adorning it with things such as huge church hats, decorative scarves, and various forms of braids. Even Native Americans regard their hair highly. Unfortunately, part of playing in a society that is based on the cultural norms of Europeans, the traditions of others aren't as regarded. But I digress.
When I was growing up, boys NEVER had long hair. That simply wasn't heard of. Long hair on men has long been regarded as a look and act of defiance, which is why hippies grew out their hair in the 60's. Essentially, by cutting their hair, boys are telling the system that they're going to fall into line.
I say, whatever, it's just hair. Cut it for the program. It will grow back. I'd damned near shine shoes for Caleb to have a chance like your son is getting.
Late pass: Is it possible for him to wear his hair in a pony tail and get by?
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